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Well, I have known my kids' father since 1993.
I met him in High School. We were very close and spent almost everyday
together. Unfortunately, he got locked up in 1996 and spent 4 1/2 years
in Prison. I was pregnant before he went to jail and gave birth a month
after he got locked up. When he was released from prison, he was a good
father. He tried to help out with our daughter anytime I asked. He
called her on a regular basis and saw our daughter often. He was very
bitter that I didn't wait for him the whole four-years, there for are
reasons for that. He was frustrated with the prison lifestyle, so he
took it out on me. He didn't realize that he was only pushing me away.
My intentions were to stay true to him and marry him when he got
released. Instead, he constantly pushed me away, but at the same time,
didn't want me to go. I was young and confused, so I did what young
people do. I made a mistake and started have relationships with other
men while he was locked up. Even though I know he would not have stayed
true to me if the situation was reversed: I still feel bad for cheating
on him. Anyhow, that is all over and it have been 7-years. In 2005 I got
pregnant by him again and we had a little boy. When I was 3months
pregnant, this man that I've known most of my life and gave my virginity
to, left me, our unborn child and our 9-year old daughter. I didn't hear
from him until our son was 3 months old, and I had to track him down.
It's very sad what he's done to his children, and I don't think he
realizes that it isn't about money, or material things. The best things
in life are FREE and our children need to have a relationship with their
real father. My son has yet to meet his biological father and my son is
1 1/2 years old now. He keeps saying that he's going to come see them,
but it hasn't happened yet. He hasn't paid child support in over 2 years
and doesn't send a dime for the kids besides that. He doesn't do
anything for Holidays...well he pretty much disapears on Holidays. My
daughter has not spent one holiday, or birthday with her father and she
is his oldest child. He sorta favortises over the mixed child he has and
treats his other 4 full black children like they don't exist. Even
though my children are beautiful, smart, and a blessing to have...he
still shows no interest in them. He carries on with life like they don't
exist, or like there's will always be a tomorrow to repair the damage he
caused. I try to explain to him that the lack of fathers in the black
community are the reasons for violence and crime in the black community.
He is the first man I can really say doesn't give a damn about his own
children. It's sad and I really feel bad for my children, especially my
daughter. She knew him and now he has abandoned and rejected her as a
human being and as a daugher. She has self-esteem problems and I try to
explain this to him but he doesn't care. My father was a deadbeat father
also; now he is 65-years-old with prostate cancer and none of his eight
children want anything to do with him. I know that he will get what he
deserves for abandoning his children like my father; I just didn't want
my children to have to go through what I went through. I believe my
father is paying for all of his children's problems and mistakes that he
could have steered us from. But it looks like it's too late for my
baby's dad because I am thoroughly discused in through with him. Please
pray for my children; and I will be doing to the same all the children
that have father's who don't love or respect themselves enough to be a
man, and father...which God obviously called you to be. |
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Although Roderick Carroll claims his child and talks about her to his friends as if he is 'father of the year', he is not, in fact he is a fraud. Rod has taken many steps to avoid paying child support for his daughter and currently owes $25,000.00 in arrears. He currently works at Tight Edge barber shop in Shreveport La. where he is paid under the table. He refuses to pay taxes so he can avoid paying child support. He don't even care about his daughters daily needs being met. The sad thing about this is his daughter just adores him but that's only because she doesn't know the truth. |
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What can I say about Kevin? Kevin age 35 lives in Drexel Hill, Pa. When I told Kevin that I was pregnant he threatened to beat the baby out of me. he also said that he will shoot me and then himself so he doesn't go to jail. he tried to force me to get an abortion. He said that he will never have any kids. he also said that he has learned his lesson, he will only date women who believes in abortion from now on. he tried up until I was 6 months pregnant to convince me through threats to abort my child. well that was the last time I spoke with him, I had to change my number to stop the harassment. I called him after the baby was born a few weeks ago to let him at least know that his child was born and he changed his number the next day. I have since found out that he has plenty of dating ads online even a myspace page. you can find him under the name of Emanual909. He is on the prowl for new victims. he is a sociopath. he is the most laid back and pleasant person, he will say nice things to you and compliment you in order to get into your pants, but the moment things don't go his way he will flip out on you. just a warning to other women stay away, far away from this man.
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This is a story about an
addict who thinks he will soon be discovered a rap superstar at the age
of 40,a BOY that never paid one penny of child support, a BOY that gave
his son $20.00 and then turned around and stole it back & he loves to
claim any and everyone else's kids but his own, he has 6 kids by six
different "women"(and I use this term loosely) and have one on the
way, they are...surprise..all white except me, he found out at a young age
what he can and cannot get away with dealing with black ladies, so he
deals strictly with white girls or black men, I haven't seen this
deadbeat since I told him that I wouldn't sleep with him and sent him
back home to his two white bisexual women that he lives with. He motto
is if he cant sleep or beat on his women, he doesn't want to bother with
the kids and so far it looks like I am the only one who doesn't put up
with the tired, layout, disgusting ass foolishness. It is a shame how
selfish this man is, he is actually jealous of the relationship that I
have with my son because my son comes first & foremost, before anyone
especially a man and my son have my unconditional love, something this
deadbeat named Alarcon Allen Wiggins has never had. All I can say is if
these females like getting beatin out of their minds and their money by
this man, more power to them, if they like it, hey I love it, all I want
to say is he is the one missing out on something, someone special which
is my son who is growing up to be a wonderful, respectful, lovable and
talented young man who isn't involved in gangs or drugs and Alarcon AKA
Marshall can have a million kids by a million different women they would
never add up to the one I have by him. He isn't even a man, he is a
joke....and the very definition of what is means to be a
sorryassbabydaddy!!!!!!!! |
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Hi my name is Wanda Caban and here is my story: I met Luis E Acevedo through a cousin and we started dating I got pregnant right away he didn't want me to have him but I did. We stood together and he was a good father for a short time at the end of my pregnancy he started disappearing He didn't want to help me financially anymore, shortly after I kicked him out I find out he's been having an affair with his cousin she starts calling my house playing phone games she has a problem with him coming to see my son in my house and he no longer sees his son Jeremy who is now 6 years old going on 7. The last time he saw him was a week before his 3rd birthday and haven't seen called or asked about him to this day
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My sorry ass baby daddy should be sorry ass baby daddy of the year....He has a total of 12 children by 5 different women. He refuses to work because he says child support will just take all of his money. When I ask for help he says he has 8 other children he needs to do something for.. I have four of his children and he helps me do nothing. He tells me to ask my man. So please post his picture....His name is Marshawn Frasier and he lives in Long Beach Ca. |
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My son's father Vernest lee age 26 from Staten Island Does not financially support him, nor spend time with him unless his sister takes my son to her house for two days. Then he will stop by to see him this happens about 3 times a year. But what's messed up he has a daughter my sons age and spends time with her and is a father to her. My son does not even know him as his father, but his daughter does. He as the nerve to tell me he never wanted my child so I will struggle alone scents I did not get an abortion. I took him to court but due to the fact he as and felony he cant get a real job. The courts ordered him to pay $32 a week, and he had the nerve to take me back to court because that was to much. Now he pays when he wants. So not only did the courts due no justice, my son is daddieless. |
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Shawki Ramon Moore from L.A CA is my ex husband and "father" of my daughter who is now 2yrs old. He has not provided a single thing for our child since the day we found we were having a baby and to present. He has even forgotten our daughters name....! His reason was that his cell phone broke and that's where our daughters "details" were and so now his phone is broken he cant get our daughters info out....! So he can go the rest of his life wondering what our daughters name is, sorry ass...! He also has 3 other children to two different women. Two girls aged about 10 and 13 and a son that is about 3 or 4 now. He owes over 100,000.00 to child support for his first two girls and 3-4 yrs of child support for his son and an additional 2 yrs child support for my daughter because he doesn't pay child support for any of his kids. He doesn't provide a single thing for any of his kids and certainly not mind. I told him one time why don't u open up a college fund and put $5.00 a week into it at least do that but all he did was LAUGH and say don't u think my other kids are going to get one b4 our daughter if I was to even do that...! Yet he can buy a blunt and roll up some weed, put sounds in his car but cant manage to put a little money into an account so that each of his kids could have something towards college. he smokes weed all day every day. as soon as he is coming down from his high he is rolling up another blunt. I don't know how men such as shawki can sleep at night knowing that they make no effort to support their children in any way shape or form. ITS DISGUSTING and these men need to CHANGE. Not for us mum's but for these kids that aren't getting what they should by their "fathers". These men need to ask themselves this "would u like a man doing this to your mother, your sister or your auntie"? Or if the rolls were reversed and men were the ones carrying a baby for 9mths and the women were the ones walking out on their unborn child such as my ex husband did, what would u men be saying....! It takes TWO to create a child and its suppose to take two to raise on and provide for one. Yes us women can raise and provide for our children without a man we've been doing it for century's but WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON IN TODAY'S SOCIETY. WHY DO MEN NOT CARE ABOUT THESE CHILDREN THESE INNOCENT CHILDREN THAT DID NOT ASK TO BE BROUGHT INTO THIS WORLD. I'm Australian and meet my ex husband in L. A. but its not only African American men that aren't taking care of their kids, its all nationalities and all over the world and ITS NOT FAIR TO OUR CHILDREN....! |
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