This dead beat ass dude...Jamien Lyndell Clark currently LIVES IN Washington , DC . We were together off and on for 3 years or better...I found out he was messing with a girl that was still in HighSchool when he was 26 years old. We got into a huge fight, I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks later. I decided to keep my baby because for ME that was the right decision it had nothing to do with him. When he found out I was pregnant the first thing he did was yell threats and demand an abortion. I kept my baby. When I first got pregnant this hoe ass nigga thought he had a daughter by a white girl...come to find out the baby wasn't even his, but here is the kicker...when he thought that little girl was his he did EVERYTHING for her...My son is now about to be 3 years old. Jamien has only seen his son twice in his whole life. The first time he ever laid eyes on his son was because he ACCIDENTLY bumped into us on the street when my baby was 4.5 months old. This loser calls every few months I guess when his concious is eating him up, makes a bunch of promises, and then we never hear from him again for another few months. He also has a son that is 11 years old who he takes care of, but my son gets NOTHING!!! I have been seperated from my son for 2 years because the only person I have to help me with my baby is my grandmother who lives in New York...Jamien told me that he couldn't afford to help me with daycare, come to find out the loser has a SISTER that runs a daycare right out of his MOTHERS house who lives less than TEN minutes away from me. I just found this out...so not only is he a dead beat, but he also is a loser who has allowed to me miss time with my son because he wants me to suffer for deciding to have him. Jamien Lyndell Clark, AKA "Clark" "Sparks" LIES and tells people that he takes care of Javien BUT THAT IS A LIE AND HE NEEDS TO BE EXPOSED!!!!! The only thing my son has gotten from him in 3 years is $100 and a bag of CVS toys.

 

It's very hard for me to muenster down what is happening to me in my life right now. I currently have 1 child by Quinton Rivers, born in raised in the Metropolitan area; by a single mother. He is the proud father of 3 children to this date 10/20/07, soon it will be 4. I am expecting again with this MAN, the system is so wack out here. I made several attempts to get help; meaning aide with aborting the child because I'm already raising my Son alone and it's not easy nor fun. At times I wish and want to live the life I once lived before having my Son but those days are gone. I now understand the statement my mother would make so often that a Mother always has to sacrifice; which for my Son I accepted. I never wanted to carry this child to full term just because I seen and know how this MAN operates in regards to his children. He's one of those brothers' that proclaims to want to be active and this hell of a father but truthfully; he'd rather lay up and engage in the acts in which children come from. I'm mostly hurt because I never foreseen this for myself and even though it can be done I've become totally uninterested in this deal. His father obtains a stable position with WMATA here in DC but tell me this if you have 3 children and 1 on the way and the kids are with random Woman how could you even think you could afford all of these stray children? It's to the point where I do not want him around because it still does hurt to know that this is my SHOW and I have these kids that are looking to me for food, shelter, and many many more things and it's fortunate but unfortunate that I have a descent job so I don't qualify for any ASSISTANCE and LORD knows I need it. My purse gets rocked every freakin day and I'm tired of not being able to enjoy my own income enjoy my own checks. I can't fathom why GOD would let this happen to me again. For many years I slept with a Man unprotected that I felt would love me and our kids and would never walk away from our family but GOD didn't let that Man impregnate me instead I get impregnated by a low-class, cissistic personality disorder, mentally and sexually unstable MAN. I sometimes wish he would get HIV or something I would wish that he would just die but that would be to quick he deserves to suffer just as I and the other Mother's of his children do. They may not be as bad off as myself cause they would never be able to tell you who "Joan and David" are; nor would they be able to state that they respect their children cause being intimate with another Man not the biological is and was inappropriate. I'm not trying to bash his other children's mother's but it is what it is. I'm angry and would like for whom ever reads this and whom ever I touch with my story to pray for me and my children. I'm in for a long walk and the power of prayer is the only thing that can get me through it. Enclosed you will find a picture of our Son Israel accompanied by his father Quinton and another of just Israel. I thank you for you site and a place where I can go and vent and know I'm not alone in this life.

 
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Well, I have known my kids' father since 1993. I met him in High School. We were very close and spent almost everyday together. Unfortunately, he got locked up in 1996 and spent 4 1/2 years in Prison. I was pregnant before he went to jail and gave birth a month after he got locked up. When he was released from prison, he was a good father. He tried to help out with our daughter anytime I asked. He called her on a regular basis and saw our daughter often. He was very bitter that I didn't wait for him the whole four-years, there for are reasons for that. He was frustrated with the prison lifestyle, so he took it out on me. He didn't realize that he was only pushing me away. My intentions were to stay true to him and marry him when he got released. Instead, he constantly pushed me away, but at the same time, didn't want me to go. I was young and confused, so I did what young people do. I made a mistake and started have relationships with other men while he was locked up. Even though I know he would not have stayed true to me if the situation was reversed: I still feel bad for cheating on him. Anyhow, that is all over and it have been 7-years. In 2005 I got pregnant by him again and we had a little boy. When I was 3months pregnant, this man that I've known most of my life and gave my virginity to, left me, our unborn child and our 9-year old daughter. I didn't hear from him until our son was 3 months old, and I had to track him down. It's very sad what he's done to his children, and I don't think he realizes that it isn't about money, or material things. The best things in life are FREE and our children need to have a relationship with their real father. My son has yet to meet his biological father and my son is 1 1/2 years old now. He keeps saying that he's going to come see them, but it hasn't happened yet. He hasn't paid child support in over 2 years and doesn't send a dime for the kids besides that. He doesn't do anything for Holidays...well he pretty much disapears on Holidays. My daughter has not spent one holiday, or birthday with her father and she is his oldest child. He sorta favortises over the mixed child he has and treats his other 4 full black children like they don't exist. Even though my children are beautiful, smart, and a blessing to have...he still shows no interest in them. He carries on with life like they don't exist, or like there's will always be a tomorrow to repair the damage he caused. I try to explain to him that the lack of fathers in the black community are the reasons for violence and crime in the black community. He is the first man I can really say doesn't give a damn about his own children. It's sad and I really feel bad for my children, especially my daughter. She knew him and now he has abandoned and rejected her as a human being and as a daugher. She has self-esteem problems and I try to explain this to him but he doesn't care. My father was a deadbeat father also; now he is 65-years-old with prostate cancer and none of his eight children want anything to do with him. I know that he will get what he deserves for abandoning his children like my father; I just didn't want my children to have to go through what I went through. I believe my father is paying for all of his children's problems and mistakes that he could have steered us from. But it looks like it's too late for my baby's dad because I am thoroughly discused in through with him. Please pray for my children; and I will be doing to the same all the children that have father's who don't love or respect themselves enough to be a man, and father...which God obviously called you to be.

 

 

Hello my name is Lena' Buckner and this is the story of my sorry ass baby's daddy......
 

His name is James Carroll Perkins and he is 25 years old. I spent 8years of my life with him and the only good thing that i got out of it is our daughter sincere. The day I told James that I was having her he told me that he wanted a divorce. While going through the divorce he tried to take her from me not because he wanted her, but because he knew that that was the only way he could truly hurt me. After many times going to court I finally had my daughter living with me. He was ordered visitations for her and at first he was doing what he was supposed to do. Then days, weeks, months started to go by and he was no where to be found. I called and called and still nothing. Then he got remarried and then he really dropped from sight. He would pop in and out form time to time, but then one day that all stopped. He has not seen, called or had any form of contact with our daughter in the last year, she now calls someone else daddy. Our daughter is now 4 years old and in 4 years he was only a part of her life for a year and a half. Out of 4 years. He now pays child support in the amount of $250.00 a month. If it was not for that still coming I wouldn't know if he was dead or alive. I have enclosed a photo of our daughter so you can see how beautiful she is for yourself.

 
  
Sincerely,
Lena' Buckner

 

 

Hi Everybody My name is Maria Diaz and this is my story:
 
I met my sorry ass baby daddy (Charlie Arroyo) on a chat line and yes I am very ashamed. We used to get together to hang out, after a while the relationship got serious and I gave myself to him completely, he was the sweetest, funniest and caring man I've ever knew until I got pregnant...After I got pregnant he was a little confused he didn't come here as often and I didn't obligate him either, sometimes I didn't even called because I felt that if 
he feel pressured  he would leave me, well he started to come back around and everything was lovely until I was 5 months pregnant, he left one day and even left his clothes he called and said that It wasn't  his baby and to find the chat line dude that got me pregnant, so I met somebody during the pregnancy and he stood by my side when I gave birth he was there, by than I decided ok I'll him a chance. Last time I heard from Charlie Arroyo he asked to come see her last feb.06 he saw her cried and left, like a week a go I went to his myspace and I saw his pictures flashing money I never asked his sorry ass for nothing because he didn't have nothing he has been taking care of this other girl kids and that's not right so that's why I felt he should be on blast...his sorry ass...    
 
Charlie Arroyo is from Harlem, His a.k.a is 'Los'

Maria

 

 

 

 

 

 

Although Roderick Carroll claims his child and talks about her to his friends as if he is 'father of the year', he is not, in fact he is a fraud. Rod has taken many steps to avoid paying child support for his daughter and currently owes $25,000.00 in arrears. He currently works at Tight Edge barber shop in Shreveport La. where he is paid under the table. He refuses to pay taxes so he can avoid paying child support. He don't even care about his daughters daily needs being met. The sad thing about this is his daughter just adores him but that's only because she doesn't know the truth.

What can I say about Kevin? Kevin age 35 lives in Drexel Hill, Pa. When I told Kevin that I was pregnant he threatened to beat the baby out of me. he also said that he will shoot me and then himself so he doesn't go to jail. he tried to force me to get an abortion. He said that he will never have any kids. he also said that he has learned his lesson, he will only date women who believes in abortion from now on. he tried up until I was 6 months pregnant to convince me through threats to abort my child. well that was the last time I spoke with him, I had to change my number to stop the harassment. I called him after the baby was born a few weeks ago to let him at least know that his child was born and he changed his number the next day. I have since found out that he has plenty of dating ads online even a myspace page. you can find him under the name of Emanual909. He is on the prowl for new victims. he is a sociopath. he is the most laid back and pleasant person, he will say nice things to you and compliment you in order to get into your pants, but the moment things don't go his way he will flip out on you. just a warning to other women stay away, far away from this man.

 

This is a story about an addict who thinks he will soon be discovered a rap superstar at the age of 40,a BOY that never paid one penny of child support, a BOY that gave his son $20.00 and then turned around and stole it back & he loves to claim any and everyone else's kids but his own, he has 6 kids by six different "women"(and I use this term loosely) and have one on the way, they are...surprise..all white except me, he found out at a young age what he can and cannot get away with dealing with black ladies, so he deals strictly with white girls or black men, I haven't seen this deadbeat since I told him that I wouldn't sleep with him and sent him back home to his two white bisexual women that he lives with. He motto is if he cant sleep or beat on his women, he doesn't want to bother with the kids and so far it looks like I am the only one who doesn't put up with the tired, layout, disgusting ass foolishness. It is a shame how selfish this man is, he is actually jealous of the relationship that I have with my son because my son comes first & foremost, before anyone especially a man and my son have my unconditional love, something this deadbeat named Alarcon Allen Wiggins has never had. All I can say is if these females like getting beatin out of their minds and their money by this man, more power to them, if they like it, hey I love it, all I want to say is he is the one missing out on something, someone special which is my son who is growing up to be a wonderful, respectful, lovable and talented young man who isn't involved in gangs or drugs and Alarcon AKA Marshall can have a million kids by a million different women they would never add up to the one I have by him. He isn't even a man, he is a joke....and the very definition of what is means to be a sorryassbabydaddy!!!!!!!!
 

Hi my name is Wanda Caban and here is my story: 

I met Luis E Acevedo through a cousin and we started dating I got pregnant right away he didn't want me to have him but I did.  We stood together and he was a good father for a short time at the end of my pregnancy he started disappearing He didn't want to help me financially anymore, shortly after I kicked him out I find out he's been having an affair with his cousin she starts calling my house playing phone games she has a problem with him coming to see my son in my house and he no longer sees his son Jeremy who is now 6 years old going on 7.  The last time he saw him was a week before his 3rd birthday and haven't seen called or asked about him to this day

 

My sorry ass baby daddy should be sorry ass baby daddy of the year....He has a total of 12 children by 5 different women. He refuses to work because he says child support will just take all of his money. When I ask for help he says he has 8 other children he needs to do something for.. I have four of his children and he helps me do nothing. He tells me to ask my man. So please post his picture....His name is Marshawn Frasier and he lives in Long Beach Ca.

My son's father Vernest lee age 26 from Staten Island Does not financially support him, nor spend time with him unless his sister takes my son to her house for two days. Then he will stop by to see him this happens about 3 times a year. But what's messed up he has a daughter my sons age and spends time with her and is a father to her. My son does not even know him as his father, but his daughter does. He as the nerve to tell me he never wanted my child so I will struggle alone scents I did not get an abortion. I took him to court but due to the fact he as and felony he cant get a real job. The courts ordered him to pay $32 a week, and he had the nerve to take me back to court because that was to much. Now he pays when he wants. So not only did the courts due no justice, my son is daddieless.

Shawki Ramon Moore from L.A CA is my ex husband and "father" of my daughter who is now 2yrs old.  He has not provided a single thing for our child since the day we found we were having a baby and to present.  He has even forgotten our daughters name....!  His reason was that his cell phone broke and that's where our daughters "details" were and so now his phone is broken he cant get our daughters info out....!  So he can go the rest of his life wondering what our daughters name is, sorry ass...!  He also has 3 other children to two different women.  Two girls aged about 10 and 13 and a son that is about 3 or 4 now.  He owes over 100,000.00 to child support for his first two girls and 3-4 yrs of child support for his son and an additional 2 yrs child support for my daughter because he doesn't pay child support for any of his kids.  He doesn't provide a single thing for any of his kids and certainly not mind. I told him one time why don't u open up  a college fund and put $5.00 a week into it at least do that but all he did was LAUGH and say don't u think my other kids are going to get one b4 our daughter if I was to even do that...!  Yet he can buy a blunt and roll up some weed, put sounds in his car but cant manage to put a little money into an account so that each of his kids could have something towards college.  he smokes weed all day every day.  as soon as he is coming down from his high he is rolling up another blunt.  I don't know how men such as shawki can sleep at night knowing that they make no effort to support their children in any way shape or form.  ITS DISGUSTING and these men need to CHANGE.  Not for us mum's but for these kids that aren't getting what they should by their "fathers".  These men need to ask themselves this "would u like a man doing this to your mother, your sister or your auntie"?  Or if the rolls were reversed and men were the ones carrying a baby for 9mths and the women were the ones walking out on their unborn child such as my ex husband did, what would u men be saying....!  It takes TWO to create a child and its suppose to take two to raise on and provide for one.  Yes us women can raise and provide for our children without a man we've been doing it for century's but WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON IN TODAY'S SOCIETY.  WHY DO MEN NOT CARE ABOUT THESE CHILDREN THESE INNOCENT CHILDREN THAT DID NOT ASK TO BE BROUGHT INTO THIS WORLD. I'm Australian and meet my ex husband in L. A. but its not only African American men that aren't taking care of their kids, its all nationalities and all over the world and ITS NOT FAIR TO OUR CHILDREN....! 

 

 

 

     
     
     
 
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