William Tremier Gaines (29), currently resides in Cedar Rapids, IA.  He currently has 4 children.  He will not get a job because he obviously doesn't want to pay child support.  My daughter with him he has never seen and she is almost 1 years old.  He also has never spent 1 cent on her and only claims her when it is condusive to him and his surroundings.  He gets all these dumb ass white girls to put everything in their names so he can't have any of his belongings taken from him for child support.  He doesn't have a drivers license either.  He messes with multiple girls at once.  He thinks he is going to become a rapper like most other black males.  His sorry ass needs to get a job and support his children before it is too late and my daughter is calling someone else daddy because he didn't step up like a real man would.  Bet his ass will be crying when she is calling someone else daddy.  Karma is a bitch.  This is why he is a sorry ass baby daddy.

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My sorry ass baby's daddy is Nick Imes, who lives in Reading, PA.  Nick is going to be 30 years old this year.  He is the biological father (my friends and I call him SD for sperm donor) of my son Nicholas who is 7.  The worst part about this situation is that Nicholas has psych-neurological disabilities that he inherited from his "father" but yet his "father" doesn't bother with him ever.  My son has doctors appointments a couple of times a week yet his "father" has only ever been to one.  I call him to let him know what is going on with Nicholas and he tells me that I make our son feel like he is crazy and retarded and that there is nothing really wrong with him.  Yet as we speak my son is in a hospital because he can not control his impulses and was jumping out in front of cars on the street and things of that sort.  My son is a very emotional little boy who needs his "father" to step up and be there, yet he is not.

A little bit of background info on our situation:  I met Nick when I was 13, moved in with him when I was 17, got pregnant when I was 18 (and so did another girl that was "just a friend"), yeah that's right, Nicholas has a brother who is 5 weeks younger than him.  Guess what?  He doesn't see that little boy either.  Nick Imes owns and operates a bar called Jokers Inc in Reading, PA.  Yet he can't pay $55/week because he says that's too much money for one kid.  Recently at court for child support he said " you women make all of these decisions on your own, you choose to get pregnant, choose to keep the baby, why shouldn't you choose to take care of the baby by yourself."  My reply to this is GROW UP!  I was on birth control when I got pregnant with my son which is probably why on the box for the pill it says that it's not 100% effective. 

Well there is an upside to the situation: I am married to a wonderful man who loves Nicholas regardless of his disabilities.  And the fact that there is a great website like this where we can post this and warn potential victims of these "men" for a lack of a better word.

My name is Shari Kennedy I am 18 and a single mother of one to a beautiful little girl named Tatiyonna Smith.  I got pregnant when I was 17 and right away my baby dad said get rid of it.  I was heart-broken and was thinking about going along w/ the abortion but I'm glad I didn't.  My debated baby-daddy Kevin Smith was so wishie-washie about my pregnancy .  One time he would be like get rid of it the next he would be like keep it because I helped you make her, I didn't know what to do. 

We fought through my whole pregnancy I thought I was going to loose Tatiyonna for sure because of the fighting. Kevin and I broke up when I was 3 month pregnant and because I'm a big girl he didn't think I was pregnant. I didn't begin two show until I was 7 months then people in school would come up to me and ask are you pregnant?. The feeling of being pregnant is the best felling in the world to me.  Kevin would call me to see if I was still pregnant.

When he would come over he would press on my stomach to see if it was hard and it wasn't yet,so he would always say your lying your not pregnant that made me mad and upset , that the man I loved for 1  1/2 years didn't believe I was carrying his child. Kevin would call me and threaten me by saying he would push me down the stairs so I would misscarrie, he would also say he would get another girlfriend and get her pregnant. I would always say that's dumb because you are going to have two kids to take care of. He would also say you better not put me on child support oops to late for that. I waited till the baby was 1 month old to see if Kevin would call or stop by of course he didn't.

I filed for Child-Support on Monday ,July10th. The last time I saw Kevin Raymond Smith Jr. last was Feb 14, 2006 when I was 7month pregnant and I have not seen him scene.  He had a fight with his mom about paying rent so he wrote a note to his family telling them he was going to Tampa FL. to enter Job Corps which was a big lie. He still has not seen his child he hasn't even called her or me to see if we are ok. Kevin did not come to the hospital when I gave birth .It breaks my heart so much I still miss him but I have to get over that feeling and be strong for my baby girl.

Warning to all young ladies in North Carolina.  This guy is Ivan Lamario Little, 25 years old, birthday August 2, 1981.  He goes by the nickname Squeaky or Ivo.  He's tall 6'4, usually very clean cut and very charming. He usually targets really young girls (17-19) and can be seen in the club every Wednesday, Friday, and Saturday.  Resides in Fayetteville, NC and loves to play basketball.  Graduated from Methodist College in Fayetteville.

He has four children by four different women.  He does not support any of his children and never has.  He does have the oldest one's name tattooed on his arm and this may be the only one that he admits too.  Don't let the tattoo fool you; he does nothing for this child or the other three.  Not only will he refuse to pay child support he won't even call or send any of his children a dime or even a card for birthdays or Christmas.  He has been blood tested for three of the four and refuses a test for the fourth and only daughter, when everyone knows that she is his because she looks just like his other three children and he was with the mother at the time.  He was with each and every one of the baby mama's, as in each of them were in relationship with him, but as soon as you mention being pregnant he changes his number and tells you not to call him until the baby comes.  At this point he'll request a blood test and when it comes back positive he pretends like he never got the results and that you nor your child exist.  In the fourth case he has refused to take a blood test cause he knows the outcome and doesn't’t want anyone else filing for child support.  Most of the time you think of a man that does this as just having slept with you once and that was it so that's why he does not claim the children but each of these cases, every mother was his so called girlfriend and one his fiancée'.  Two of the relationships lasted over two years each.  You would think you know a person after that amount of time but not him.  He lies to each one about the other and denies his children to his current victim at the time. Take this as a warning.  Don't fall victim. 

Good Day,

I'm sending this message all the way from St. Croix, United States Virgin Islands.  I came across your website, as I to, am a single parent to two wonderful and beautiful children, a boy (age 9) and a girl (age 7).  The father (or as I say, the man that helped make them) is John Walter Hardy, Jr.  He was born on September 26, 1974 on St. Thomas, U.S. Virgin Islands, but was raised on St. Croix, U.S. Virgin Islands.  He is a pathological and habitual liar.  He refuses to pay child support despite the court orders.  He went as far as to request a mediation last November (2005) for visitation, although he was never denied visitation in the first place.  He requested to see the children every other Saturday, from 8am-5pm (ain't it nice, he could chose when he wants to be a parent), needless to say, that last about 3 months.  In February, he told the kids he was taking a short (2 week) trip, and that he see them on the next scheduled visitation day, IT NEVER HAPPENED.  They have never seen him, nor heard from him since.  He has changed his telephone numbers and apparently his address.  John used to be a Police Officer (ain't that funny) but he lost his job about 4 years ago, and now he claims to own a computer repair company, yet he can't pay child support.

Please let me know if my case could be posted?  I would really appreciate it if it could.  As you know, the frustrations of being a single parent, let alone be a single parent with no financial contributions from the other "parent".