His name is Dwight Jeter and he is 30 yrs old still living with his parents. I had the misfortune of being married to him for 5 yrs the last 3 he was in and out of prison and couldn't hold a job to save his life. Finally after a year and a half of supporting his lazy ass and having him steal money that was meant to pay bills for drugs I left him. He of course had to move back in with his parents and if my 8 yr old son heard from him once a month I was amazed. It took him a year to show any interest in having my son visit and when my son got scared and said he didn't want to stay with him for a week his dad didn't want to be "inconvenienced" with the 1 1/2 hr drive to see him for the evening and maybe talk him through his fear (after all he hadn't seen or talked to him much in the past year). Of course if I received maybe $300 in a year and a half I'd be amazed. Then our divorce was finalized and still no sign of any child support (unless you count the one check he sent that wasn't even the full amount and the bank wouldn't cash the check the first 3 times I tried). He finally picks up his son for half the summer and tells him that if his mom doesn't pick him up (he lives 500 miles away) then he is going to have to go to school there, never mind that he was told before he picked him up that he was going to have to bring him back being as how I was 8 months pregnant at the time, so my dad who lives close to him had to bring my son home. He has not heard once from his father since he got home over 6 weeks ago but that is OK because he has a wonderful stepfather who provides for him and is 100 times the father to him that Dwight ever was.
Name: Dwight Jeter Story by: Maya

Greetings Sister,

I must first salute you, and send applause that someone finally took the bull by the horns, and made a listing of all the shameless brother’s that are out there!

 

Here is my story.

I met Dibu –My Baby Daddy, 4 years ago, he was working as a laborer, and I said to myself hell he is a working man jump on it. After dating for 7 months I moved in with him, at his mother’s house to save money for our own house, 2 months after moving in I found out I was pregnant with our daughter. So we decided we would stay there, which for our culture is not weird as we are practicing RASTAFARIANS to get own our feet, so we would be more able to take the steps into marriage, and parenthood.

A month after I had our Daughter he quit his job and told me he had been laid off, I found out later that he lied…He has not worked longer then 3 months since her birth and the 3 months he did work, he would even by pampers for her. I then decided to move to my mother’s house until I found a home for my daughter and I. With things going well for she and I he, became belligerent with the idea of unless living in 2 separate home, so I found a 2 bedroom apartment not far from his mother home for us to abide in. Low and behold 4 months into living in the apartment  we separated, He just applied for unemployment insurance which is $93.00 a week and he will not by her bear necessities like pampers, wipes or milk. Stating he won’t have any money then…So basically when we went to court last week the JUDGE ordered him to Pay $80.00 a week and if he does not comply he will go to jail for a minimum of 2 months. The lord works in mysterious ways, but Sisters we have to up the ante. No more booty calls with our baby Daddy’s, no more fighting his new chick, go to court with dignity, and class, and work the hell out of the justice system. It works in your favor when your prepared girlz…It worked for me, I dare him not to pay, unless he has aspirations of being “ the New Piece” on cell block # 9….

Sweet Justice
Name: Dibu Story by: Avita Reynolds

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
LADIES, DON’T LET HIM HAPPEN TO YOU!!!
RiCKY RICARDI WILLIAMS .is the name but………
He told me, "Pretty Ricky is what they call me!" I thought he was being funny. Guy seems to have a great sense of humor so far. Little did I know he really meant that he was pretty tricky. He is twice divorced and has 3 daughters and I am the mother is his last and only son (that I know of). Ricki Williams is a serious dead beat. Our son has been hospitalized recently; he has had 3 surgeries in 6 months. Ricky Williams did not even make an attempt to try to see how his son is doing. He has been in hiding for 2 years since he paid a purge for non-compliance with child support and I would not let him tell me how to spend the money. I just recently bought a brand new home for my family. Rickie Ricardo Williams got mad b/c of course that’s all he think he should pay and should not have to pay a monthly court ordered amount. I cussed him out for disrespecting me by him saying, "All you do is pay bills with the money." This shell of a man had not paid ANYTHNG IN 5 YEARS AND THINK HE DESERVES A COOKIE FOR PAYING A PURGE—HIS OWN DEAD BEAT DEBT. NO ANYTHING. No compassion for our son. This guy is totally selfish. Our son is 6 years old and has only seen his father and the father’s family a few times and they live RIGHT in the area. The day we met I was coming from a beauty parlor and he offered me a ride my car was down and I though he appeared harmless. The demons with in soon show it’s self. . I was a student at the University and did not have much of a social life b/c of studies and I already had a 7-year-old son. So being an independent woman I decided to give him a shot. He is very charismatic and will make you laugh. He charmed me right out of my draws. Of course he told me that he wanted to build a life with me and that he loved me. Then as soon as I fall for the lame ass he starts with some ghetto crappy attitude. Treating me like I need to bow down and worship him. NEVER. I went on with my life. Needless to say, I found out I was pregnant soon after. WE chose to have our baby and I dedicate him to God. And he is a very blessed child! But when I got into a relationship with someone else he couldn’t take it. And distance him from us. The DNA test comes back 99.99 but Ricky Ricardi Williams did not change his tone. Now, he really wants me bow down just to get his son a piece of read.                  If anyone spots Rick Ricardo Williams last seen in Tampa Florida please email me the authorities is still looking for him and so is his little boy wanting to know his daddy. My address is:reeshemahjmccoy@hotmail.com. Any information is Great! Ricky RICARDO WILLIAMS IS SUCH A DEAD BEAT HE WONT EVEN GIVE ME HIS NUMBER !! IN FEAR THAT I MAY ASK HIM TO BE A FATHER to SON!

 Fedia God bless you for that fire inside. This is a great area for venting and for the authorities to have help in finding these dead beats. This long awaited revelation of someone caring about the mothers and children. These guys have been given a ghetto pass for too long and the woman is always the blame. These guys are expected to be null and void because we woman work so hard at keeping our families together. This is the best-kept secret and now the word is out. The disrespect is not warranted. I was wrong for sleeping with someone that I hardly knew but SO WAS HE!!! At least I own up TO my responsibilities. Thank God somebody sees that it isn’t fair. It appears to be "normal" for a man a black man to not take care of his children. And sistas are backin these men up because then they will get the money. Instead of tellin this man to handle his business. They sit there with their hand out and beg for cash flow. Not caring if they are takin food out of other kids mouth. RICKY RICARDO WILLIAMS AINT SHIT AND THE WOMEN IN HIS LIVE AINT SHIT CAUSE THEY LET HIM GET AWAY WITH NEGLECTING HIS SON. WORD TO THE WISE LADIES-- IT DON’T MAKE YOU MORE WOMAN TO EAT MY BABY’S FOOD DRINK MY BABY’S MILK AND USE THE MONEY FOR MY BABY’S CLOTHES. GOD FORBID IF THESE WOMEN ARE TAKIN CARE OF RICKY RICARDO WILLIAMS. He’s known for that too. HE LOVES TO HAVE WOMEN TAKE CARE OF HIM!!! LADIES DON’T LET HIM HAPPEN TO YOU!!! The reason I used different spelling of his name is because HE DOES HAVE DIFFERENT ALIAS and I want yall to know them all~ ~ God Bless you all!!
Name: Ricky Ricardo Story by: Reeshemah McCoy's

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I am writing you to make you aware of an issue. Former NBA player, current USBL assistant coach and aspiring NBA assistant coach, Cliff Levingston has failed to submit timely payments. He is currently 4 months in arrears on his most recent payment terms and owes $100,000 in child support payments. Cliff has also failed to return calls to the Department of Child Support Services, provide them with any of his contact information or provide them with any of his employment information. This case has been forwarded for contempt of court charges.

Cliff informed me that a federal office claims he only owes me $45,000 and is current which is not the case. Cliff owed over $120,000 when he was arrested in 2002, our daughter was not an adult at that time and it does not calculate the continued interest on the balance. Cliff chooses to communicate only with the federal office since he is treated more lenient and I am vilified. He fails to realize the federal case is closed but the full amounts owed are kept with the Department of Child Support who referred the case to the federal unit for prosecution. The Department of Child Support maintains jurisdiction until the entire amount is paid in full.

The federal office is still angered over the fact that I had to report them due to their office’s error in inputting the payment check in wrong and causing the checks to be delayed 45 days.

Cliff is touting around, our daughter Tristan ran off from home and is in contact with him. From the onset Cliff has refused to inform me of her whereabouts when she left my home. He was made aware that I would come home and find Tristan gone without provocation and my only to find a note. However he wanted me to provide Tristan with funds and angered when I turned off her cell phone. In his trying to brand me as a bad mother, he is failing to inform you that our daughter stole from Macys, lied about it for weeks, had me and my associates to back her as she relayed to us a false story about the incident claiming racial profiling. She ran days prior to the truth being revealed. Cliff did not see her stealing as a big issue. While I have a serious problem with her stealing and what has unfolded since. Additionally Cliff promised her a tennis scholarship to his alma mater and a new Lincoln Aviator. I have not heard from her in 6 months. During our conversations, Cliff taunts with ‘she does not want to speak with you or let you know where she is living.’ It fails to upset me and he angers. I don’t believe in lying or stealing no matter who it is…she knows better.

I have estranged members of my family whose sinister acts assisted her and making this more problematic, previous police reporting of their threats and a restraining order was filed. Additionally, I had to relocate to another state. I raised Tristan, provided for her solely and educated her with no assistance from Cliff. It was I who provided those expensive tennis lessons, camps, equipment and etc. at times working two jobs to do so. I have tried to co-parent with Cliff, forgiving and believing him when he said he had changed only to be disappointed in his need to try and besiege my character and cause me pain in an apparent attempt to reason his criminal acts.

While this has no bearing on your office, I thought it best to make you aware of the actual goings on, feeling that these emotions tend to have bearing on how people in general respond.

I am not trying to keep Cliff from employment. What I am asking is that if you should decide to hire him, that a condition of his contract include that he pay the child support owing in full and assure that garnishments are in place. Cliff would like to continue to pollute my life rather than pay the money owed and allow me to move forward and rebuild.  I need to obtain the funds owed and place this negativity behind me.  

His minor league employers fail to even return the Department of Child Supports calls or honor the wage garnishments provided them.  

I apologize for any inconvenience. However Cliff makes this necessary as he attempts to meander through a problematic system and is hell bent on trying to make me pay at any cost. I tried to speak with him regarding similar issues in 1997 when he refused to make support payments. He told me to let the courts handle it. They did.  Now he states that he does not want me to contact him and let the courts communicate with him. Once again, he fails to listen or respond. I am hopeful that at one point he gets it, his actions are illegal and I will not allow him to get away with not paying me. It has taken me 10 years thus far.

I am sure Cliff realizes that if he paid me, I would forget his existence. I just want what is owed to me. Raising a child alone, fighting through the legal system and all other travesties associated with this situation limits your income potential, you pay for things for the child neglecting yourself or your future. I did so for 21 years. I simply want what is legally owed to me.

http://archive.sportingnews.com/nba/articles/20030611/477920.html

I would appreciate your understanding, cooperation and any assistance you may provide.

Name: Cliff Levingston Story by: Voretta Roland

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